How to Romance a Woman: Top 10 Tips for a Great Sex

It is not a new thing that the doorway to a great sex is romance. Nevertheless, there are a lot of men who have not got it right so as to make their women enjoy sex to the full. This therefore necessitates the need to know how to romance a woman.

Above all things, women love to be touched affectionately. Women are emotional creatures; they thrive on feelings. If you want your partner to enjoy sex, you must know how to caress her very well. She must be in the mood before her body can respond adequately to sexual stimulus.

If you are the kind of man who knows how to romance a woman, you are well on the way to make your woman become a sexually insatiable person who will love to be with you more often than you expect. Her sexual appetite will double up quickly. Good romance is memorable to most women. You must understand the act.

Now, here are simple tips on how to romance a woman.

1. Take a shower together in the bathroom. Spray some sweet-smelling perfume on the bed while blue light is on.

2. Massage her back from the shoulders down to the buttocks. Then, while lying on her back, massage her thighs with gentle strokes. You may add some oil or jelly to your palms.

3. Give her a gentle fondling on her breasts. Gently rub the nipples with your fingers until they become hard, showing that she is being sexually excited.

4. Then, with the tip of your tongue, stroke the nipples. If you have some peppermint at home, take it. It will make your mouth cool for sucking the breasts. Do that for a while.

5. While fondling her breasts, kiss her affectionately too. It must be a deep kiss. Sometimes, stick out your tongue to touch hers.

6. Caress other sensitive parts of her body, of which you should have known before the romance. For instance, some women respond to touch on their thighs, lobes of the ears, the soles of the feet, and so on. Simply ask her. You could also stimulate her in those areas with the tip of the tongue.

7. Don’t keep dumb! Talk to her about your feelings. Say sex-saturated words to enhance her mood for sex. Generally, women are moved by what they hear.

Say words like:

i. Having sex with you gives me joy.

ii. Sweetheart, I feel great when I’m inside you.

iii. Oh, how your body is full of pleasure!

iv. Your boobs are sweet!

v. No other woman can ever do it like you do!

8. To enable her have a great orgasm, rub her clitoral area slightly. Meanwhile, go on with kissing. Stroke the clitoris. When you see sign that she is getting near orgasm, stop it.

9. After few minutes, resume the clitoral stimulation. Repeat such process for like three to five times. By so doing, she will have become extremely stimulated.

10. At this point, she is fully ready for a pleasurable sex episode. Quickly take her on top. Depending on her taste, that’s possibly the best position at that point in time. She is likely going to scream in ecstasy.

That’s how to romance a woman and get her asking for more. It may take time. Every great sex episode usually takes time. So, patience is required if you want to please your woman.

Four Criteria Of A Great Romance Movie

Romance movies are timeless. Everyone has his or her favorite romance movie. Most of the time, the romance movies serve a purpose, mostly, as an escapism. One thing that these movies do is that they keep the idea of romance alive. No matter how happy or tragic the ending is, romance movies are loved by its viewers for entertaining them and keeping their dream alive.

It begs a question.. what makes a great romance movie? There are some actors and actresses who are great for romance movies and some who do not. There are some stories that are simply remarkable and there are some stories that make you wonder who made it the first place. I believe that there are at least four criteria of a great romantic movie

1. Likability of the Leads

First and foremost, the leads in the movie must be ‘likable’, meaning that the target audience love them and believe that they are lovers or can be lovers in real life. Which means that they must have chemistry between them. When the chemistry is there, it makes the interactions in the movie likable and believable. And it is important for the audience to like the leads for them to ‘get’ the movie.

This factor made Meg Ryan, the romantic comedy queen in late 80s / early 90s. Her two major performance in ‘When Harry Meet Sally’ and ‘Sleepless In Seattle’, paired with two great leading men, Billy Crystal and Tom Hanks, was a major tour de force. In both movies, she ‘clicked’ with both of them, which gave the movies critical and commercial success.

2. Simple And Clear Storyline

Another important criteria is the storyline. It has to be simple and clear, so that the viewer can understand what is going on in the movie, which means, who are the parties in love and what is the situation. Romance movies are not good grounds to do plot twist and turns as it will turn off the viewers as it will interfere with the viewers enjoyment of the romance. An example of good storyline was the movie adaptation of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, in 2005. The movie did an excellent job in portraying the romance of Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Darcy, showing the ‘games’ that both played with each other till they eventually fell in love in the end.

3. Movie Location / Background

The role of the movie location and background is to support and enhance the romance movie. It is not very important but it does play a role. The background refers to the cast that surrounds the leads, for example, family members or office mate. The movie location refers where the movie is situated. Usually, it is the movie locations that spice up the romance. A good example of the movie background is the cast of Four Weddings and a Funeral. In the movie, Charles’ set of eclectic friends complimented his ‘adventures’ in pursuing Carrie. A good example of movie location would be the location of Venice and Positano in Only You, starring Marisa Tomei and Robert Downey, where it made the romance in the movie magical, with glorious location scenes, Italian language and songs.

4. Excellent Movie Song / Soundtrack

And finally, the killer criteria would be the song or soundtrack of the movie, as it enhances and reminds the viewer of the romance movie experience. Usually, it would be a pop song sung by the popular artist and it becomes a chart topper. An obvious example would be the song “My Heart Will Go On” sung by Celine Dion from the movie Titanic. The song functions as a killer hook that drives the success of the movie and does help the commercial success of the movie soundtrack and movie itself. In the movie, the song typically appears either as a short music clip or becomes an instrumental background.

Well, those are the four criteria that I think makes a great romance movie. There might be others but these are the four main criteria and when all four criteria appear in a romance movie, it is almost certain that the movie becomes a commercial and critical hit.